Myers & Briggs Personality Test

My view on it

For the longest time, the Myers and Briggs test really bugged me.

The reason for this, primarily, is because I'm a very free-spirited and independent person. I don't want anybody telling me who - or what - I am or should be.

In short, it felt to me like people were letting the test results define them.

And this rubbed me wrong.

Now, I realize that probably seems like a silly assumption to you, the smart person reading this blog post.

But I'm being real here, folks.

People squishing themselves into a mold goes against everything I feel about being your own person.

I can say that, because I've been there. Okay, not squeezing myself into a mold as such; but letting other people define me as a person. Until very recently, I've based almost all my likes and dislikes off other people's opinions. I would try to fit in so that my friends and family would...I don't know, like me more.

Of course, if I hadn't been so concerned about conforming myself to fit with their views on everything, I would have realized that they will love me even if my likes and dislikes don't line up exactly with theirs.

That's what love is: setting aside differences and choosing to get along anyway. I've heard that love is a choice. And that is so, so true.

But I digress. That was not this post's intended topic.

I just got hung up on the whole "Problems only ENFPs will understand", "INTJ problems", etc., etc. I was just like, "Okay people. Okay. Maybe those are problems that people with that personality type experience. But seriously. If I try hard enough, I can understand, too. It doesn't take just someone from that particular type to understand." When someone says or suggests that I can't understand something, it irks me.

Not to mention every time I took the test it got me wrong.

"You are INTJ." No, I'm not. "You are INFP." No, I'm not.

Etcetera.

I got so tired of it, I just gave up.

And then recently my friend took it, and freaked out because the result was so accurate.

So of course, I decided to go and take it again. The first couple times, it was still wrong.

Then I finally hit it....

INFJ.

Boom.

In your face, Michelle.

Of course, there were some things I didn't agree with. But some parts were so accurate, it wasn't even amusing.

So now I can see what I didn't before...not everyone that pinned Myers & Briggs were letting the test define them; rather, they were defining themselves by the test.

I'll use my own experience for example.

One creepily accurate section:

"INFJs indeed share a very unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance." (Source: INFJ Personality)

And it wasn't that the result defined me. It was that the result put into words what I knew and felt, but couldn't express.

And I felt understood.

I was really beginning to think that I was just a total werido, that I was a broken person that no one ever knew exactly how to deal with.

So you can imagine, finding out about this personality type sure helped me. It was lovely to read some of the comments and see that there were others out there who were like me. 

It was, as the good Doctor would say, "Fantastic!" I was so happy to see I wasn't alone.

That being said, there are still aspects of this whole personality test deal that I dislike. But if it can help others like it helped me - well, that's a blessing, then. 


So, be your own person, please. If some test can help you figure out who you are, great. If not, great. Don't let something as frivolous as a test answer guide your life and your interactions with others. You will find it is so much more freeing to live your own life, rather than always trying to copy someone else's. 


Lastly, here's a great Dr. Seuss quote for you:

From Pinterest, cropped by me.

What do you think of the Myers & Briggs test? Feel free to leave a comment below!

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