God created butterflies with the ability to pollinate, fly, and be beautiful. But you don't see a butterfly trying to swim in the water because it believes it should be a fish. No. The butterfly knows it's purpose and it glorifies God in fulfilling that purpose. Why should my life be any different? If I live my life believing I should be something I'm not, and ignore what God has given me, am I any different than a butterfly trying to be a fish? I am free to be who God created me to be. I find that a comforting truth.